Adultery
If you are having an orgasm forced on you, and sadly this can happen to children as well as adults, the unrepentant perpetrators will have no memory of their life when God resurrects them in Christ's Kingdom. Their destruction is with the wicked unless they have proven a life of repentance to the true God. People who rape they will not exist, because sin will not exist in the true God's Kingdom.
Worship to God includes Him providing our orgasm with our one flesh spouse. An act of masturbation had better include God and our one flesh spouse or we are stealing worship from God. There is no way to mechanically experience masturbation, go for sexual gratification in the absence of our marriage mate without practicing idolatry. God will help any person overcome masturbating that asks Him.
What is adultery or fornication? When self-willed stimulation other than your legal marriage mate is the cause of your orgasm. Why? Marital sex is an act of worship to the true God; made Holy by marriage and fidelity of heart and body.
Using other people or images in your sexual act -- even when your spouse is included or approves -- is committing adultery. Individuals participating in pornography are adulterers and can be divorced by their spouses on the grounds of adultery and be in the true God's favour. Forgiveness needs to be complete. This means no reminders of the former adultery.
What if your spouse does not use adultery on the divorce papers? Joseph chose to secretly divorce Mary from their engagement even though he accused her of adultery for being pregnant prior to their marriage. Guess what? Willingness to be secret in the divorce God regarded as righteous. Joseph loved her and did not want her to suffer ridicule and embarrassment -- in reality Mary would have taken her place as a whore, no different than Rahab, with a public divorce. The true God's angel stopped him from divorcing Mary. Jesus was legally and genetically born through the king David line and this protected the Christ's ministry. Luke and Mathew deliver the genealogy of each parent.
Orgasm is the pleasure God shares with husband and wife. One leads in marriage and the other obeys. An individual who does not answer for another before God retains their virginity.