Beating Off Pornography Not Just A Cheesy Pun*
More, Judah and a Widow
Judah asked his son to give his brother children through his brother's widow. The man would spill his sperm and not give her his seed. The firstborn son from brother-in-law marriage was not counted in the inheritance of Israel as his. It went to his brother. This brother-in-law that spilled his seed the true God removed from among Judah's offspring (took his life). Refusing offspring to your brother was a sin against a widow. Under Mosaic Law the stranger, the fatherless, and the widow were to be cared for always. These were people at a disadvantage.
Also, under Mosaic Law adulterers caught in the act were put to death -- not-to-mention bestial relations. The human and beast were destroyed. Porn stars are in the act. The porn watcher is lusting after a deed worthy of death. This reasoning gets better.
To watch a sexual act is to watch the "nakedness" of another. When Noah was drunk and uncovered in his tent; Ham, his son, entered and raped him. Seeing his father's nakedness is what describes the sex act. To see nakedness is to experience nakedness in Biblical terms. The experience of nakedness is sex relations if married, fornication if unmarried.
Ham took a man who did not have a desire to be a feminine companion. He raped a man, his father, who loved his female wife. Seeing a man's nakedness came with a curse. Ham became father to Canaan. The Canaanites descendants of Canaan the true God conducted ethnic cleansing against through Israel's conquest of their lands.
Really, looking at a naked man and woman is that big a deal? No. Saul lay naked all day and all night. Big deal. A naked man. This was a prophetic gesture in Israel. Saul was questioned as a prophet. The distinguishing feature is the act of fucking in any form. After raping his father, Noah, Ham waltzed out and boasted to his brothers his act. Shem and Japheth walked in backwards with a cloth on their backs to cover their father. They would not look at their father post fucking. Get it? These men would not look at their father after he had been fucked. Let alone watch while it was happening.
Among the clans of Reuben were great decisions of heart. What did Ruben do? Had sex with his father's woman. That sexual act regarded one as seeing the nakedness of his father. What is a decision of the heart? a decision of passions. Sin, blood, fills the heart. Ultimately Israel, when he lay dying and sharing his last words with his sons, cursed Reuben. Judah a younger son won the genetic line for the true God's king to be born from. Reuben had even stopped his brothers from killing Joseph. This good deed did nothing to stop his curse for seeing the nakedness of his father.
There are scriptures in the Mosaic Law about the uncleanness of an emission and the sexual act of married persons. Anyone can read those and say, "Eh, I will wash my sheets and shower in the morning." Really? Good for you at keeping tidy. Uncleanness is not why porn is unclean. In the eyes of the true God porn is experiencing the nakedness of others, not your spouse. You are fornicating. You know what the true God thinks of fornication. He hates it. That does not mean He hates you. (Others might.)
Only with the true God you can stop that perverse habit. It is not too late. If pornography has crippled you, you can enjoy a sexual relationship with your spouse again. A curse you can expect for not beating off pornography is regarding sexual relations with your spouse as rape against you. End the habit to get a connected sex life back with your spouse.
If you have a conscience about ending this habit, you have the most powerful ally possible. Reach out to the true God in prayer and ask for His help in quitting this habit. You will beat off pornography because it is part of Satan's wheelhouse of hate against life. The true God will make it possible for you to skip into His Kingdom with other sheep who have overcome their lameness too.